Shai grew up in a sheltered environment in the Midwest, feeling different and questioning societal norms. Her curiosity and questioning nature often clashed with her conservative upbringing. She was adopted and had a complex relationship with her family, particularly her sister and father. Shai's childhood was marked by feelings of abandonment and identity struggles, exacerbated by her ADHD diagnosis and her father's emotional withdrawal during her adolescence. Despite these challenges, she found solace in outdoor play and believes her parents did their best, though she questions some of her mother's actions. As an adult, Shai has embraced her sexuality and works part-time in the adult industry, organizing events like gang bangs. She views these activities as empowering and therapeutic, both for herself and the participants. Shai is transparent about her lifestyle and finds fulfillment in helping others explore their desires. She emphasizes the importance of being comfortable in one's skin and challenges societal taboos around sex. Shai also reflects on her resilience, the impact of her past, and the lessons she's learned about judgment, time management, and parenting. She advocates for empathy and understanding, drawing from her own experiences of being judged and misunderstood.