The speaker suggests that young people should focus on having children as soon as possible, even during high school, arguing that it forces individuals, particularly men, to achieve and grow because they have no other choice. He believes that men tend to do nothing until they are compelled to act, and having children provides that necessary motivation. The speaker also shares his perspective on wealth, noting that rich people are often unhappy and that pursuing money for its own sake is a dead end. Instead, he advocates for seeking fulfillment through creating life and building relationships. He emphasizes the importance of gathering loved ones and maintaining strong relationships as a means of protection against life's uncertainties. Additionally, he advises marrying someone who has a good relationship with their father, as it often leads to more secure and stable partnerships.